“We fell in love, despite our differences, and once we did, something rare and beautiful was created. For me, love like that has only happened once, and that’s why every minute we spent together has been seared in my memory. I’ll never forget a single moment of it.” -Nicholas Sparks Love. In my opinion love is something that's hard to come by, it's rare. But just because it's rare doesn't mean you can't fall in love over and over again. With that being said..... The 4 times I fell in love (: 1. High School: Many people will argue that you are too young to know what love is in high school. They say you haven't experienced life yet. You haven't figured out where you want to go with your own life so how can you tie yourself to someone when you don't even know if you want the same things. I find that way of thinking "silly." I met my, now husband, in high school. We were 16 years old and I was SO the smitten kitten. lol. Love knows no age. Falling in love with him was like an adventure I never knew I wanted to go on, until I found him. Love isn't all happy and cheerful all the time. It's the mess, the tears, the fights, the I can't stand you's that make it worth it. 2. My Wedding day After dating for three and a half years my boyfriend(at the time) decides to "pop the question." In that moment you think to yourself "okay, I couldn't possibly love him any more if I tried!" and then just like that it's your wedding day and you're looking into his eyes...vowing to love him, cherish him, be his partner through life, and that's when it happens. For me at least. I fell in love with him all over again(: 3. When I found Out I was Pregnant Finding out I was Pregnant was so exciting and so scary all at once. So many things go through your mind. Am I going to be a good mom? Am I too young? Do I even know what I'm doing? But after you get done questioning yourself you get this flutter in your tummy, and you realize you're going to have a baby. Then you fall in love with all these ideas. The idea that someone will call you mommy(or daddy, for all my male readers). The idea that you and the one you love have made a life together. And the idea that you get the chance to start a family that will be yours and only yours. 4. When I had my baby Seriously, Probably the best day of my entire life. Don't get me wrong, nothing about it was pleasant. Leaking things, pushing things out(don't even get me started on that), the struggle was REAL. Having a baby is the most difficult thing I've ever done, but the reward was so much greater. I remember when he , finally, came out he wasn't crying. My first instinct was to panic. I asked my mom if he was okay because I couldn't see him yet and she replied "yeah he's just looking around checking everything out!" He has been my greatest joy in life yet and I wouldn't trade a single tear, poopy diaper, smack in the face, or sleepless night for anything. He's the best kind of love there is, pure and sweet. Love....
It just happens (:
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AuthorJessica Hatcher, 24, Anthem, AZ. Archives
May 2017
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